{"id":971,"date":"2017-06-19T05:04:59","date_gmt":"2017-06-19T05:04:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/darylchow.com\/Daryl_Chow\/Blog\/wordpress\/fullcircles\/?p=971"},"modified":"2017-06-19T05:04:59","modified_gmt":"2017-06-19T05:04:59","slug":"moretime","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/moretime\/","title":{"rendered":"The One Thing You Can Do To Have More Time"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Make-Haste-Slowly.png\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-980\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-980\" src=\"http:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Make-Haste-Slowly.png\" alt=\"Make Haste Slowly\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" srcset=\"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Make-Haste-Slowly.png 560w, https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/Make-Haste-Slowly-300x169.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino; font-size: 12pt;\">Become less busy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">In our haste to do more, time speeds up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">In trying to go at the speed of light, we fail to live at the <span style=\"color: #800000;\"><a style=\"color: #800000;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.onbeing.org\/program\/transcript\/7635\">speed of life<\/a><\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">In our busy-ness to work hard and play hard, we make it hard to have a good time. Must life be this hard?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">When we try to catch up with time, it slips us by ever more quickly.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Anxiety to do more and be more has it&#8217;s way of speeding up the clock.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Urgent things are not like an urgency to go to the bathroom. The more urgent things, the faster time goes.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Instead, by re-calibrating ourselves to the essential things, year after year, month after month, week after week, and each new day,\u00a0 helps us synchronise with the steps of life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Henry David Thoreau said, <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\"><strong>\u201cIt is not enough to be busy. The question is: what are we busy about?\u201d\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Perhaps the rhythms of our hearts determine the rhythms of time.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Time ripples on, with and without you. Time exists in motion regardless of our opinions, delusions, and fantasies.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">&#8220;Thus we are busy people just like all other busy people, rewarded for the rewards which are rewarded to busy people.&#8221; &#8211; Henri Nouwen<span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><sup>1<\/sup><\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">So make time, by becoming less busy. This is probably the biggest struggle I face in my life right now. But it&#8217;s a worthy challenge.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Some might say, &#8220;But I can&#8217;t. I&#8217;m busy as hell.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Can we afford to drown in the sea of busy-ness? Matthew Kimberley says that feeling overwhelmed is not necessarily a function of having too much to do but rather not knowing what to do next.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Lets make room to exist in time.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Walk, slowly. Don\u2019t gobble down your food. Don\u2019t major in minor things. Figure out what&#8217;s vital. \u201cOur highest priority is to protect our ability to prioritise.\u201d<span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><sup>2<\/sup><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino; color: #808080;\"><i>\u201cTell me, what is it you plan to do<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino; color: #808080;\"><i>with your one wild and precious life?\u201d\u00a0<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino; color: #808080;\"><i>~ Mary Oliver, From the Summer Day<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\"><b>Notes:<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">1. <span style=\"color: #800000;\"><a style=\"color: #800000;\" href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2sN5LYw\">Henri Nouwen, from The Way Of The Heart<\/a><\/span>, p.22.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">2.<span style=\"color: #800000;\"> <a style=\"color: #800000;\" href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2sNyADZ\">Greg Mckeown, Essentialism<\/a><\/span> p. 101<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-971","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorised","post-preview"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/971","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=971"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/971\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=971"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=971"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=971"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}