{"id":1191,"date":"2019-12-13T12:00:55","date_gmt":"2019-12-13T12:00:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/?p=1191"},"modified":"2024-03-13T15:25:27","modified_gmt":"2024-03-13T15:25:27","slug":"the-invisible-essentials","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/the-invisible-essentials\/","title":{"rendered":"The Invisible Essentials"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica;\">&#8220;<strong>Everywhere a greater joy is preceded by a greater suffering<\/strong>.&#8221; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica;\">~ <strong>St. Augustine<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica;\">Yes, we all have <a href=\"http:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/the-invisible-wounds\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\">invisible wounds<\/span><\/a>. At the same time, what&#8217;s truly essential is also invisible to the eye. And in some sense, we\u00a0<em>wake up\u00a0<\/em>to joy after the ordeal of trials and tribulations.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica;\">The impulse of desire, knowing what we want, is the seed of vitality. It&#8217;s a powerful life-force inside each of us exist, if we learn to tune in, adjust and calibrate the frequencies like an old transistor radio.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica;\">This life-force within us is a creative force. Not just in an aesthetic or artistic sense, but a potent energy waiting to be nurtured and shared generously with others.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica;\">Others people would often fail to see this seed of desire within you. Only those who know you in a deep way are able to sense this providence, and only a fewer selected people\u2014mentor, teacher, wise friend\u2014can help unearth this with you. If you know such individuals, stay close to them. If you don&#8217;t have such individuals in your life, seek them out. <strong>Everyone on this journey needs a guide<\/strong>, especially in two particular phases of life: <\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica;\">Periods of <strong>struggles and ordeal<\/strong>, and <\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica;\">Periods of <strong>renewal<\/strong>.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica;\">One way to begin tapping into this creative force is to sit with this one question, &#8220;<strong>What do you want to create in this life,&#8221;\u00a0<\/strong>[1] and refrain from settling with familiar and norm-based responses. Because each of us, given the matrix of our unique burdens and blessings, have something remarkable to give.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline; font-size: 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Helvetica;\">Footnotes: <\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 10pt;\">[1] Robert Fritz, The Path of Least Resistance.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,3],"tags":[82,83,84,35,60],"class_list":["post-1191","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-psychological","category-reflections","tag-creative","tag-journey","tag-mentors","tag-reflections","tag-wisdom","post-preview"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1191","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1191"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1191\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1507,"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1191\/revisions\/1507"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1191"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1191"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1191"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}