{"id":1000,"date":"2017-08-18T05:20:02","date_gmt":"2017-08-18T05:20:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/darylchow.com\/Daryl_Chow\/Blog\/wordpress\/fullcircles\/?p=1000"},"modified":"2017-08-18T05:20:02","modified_gmt":"2017-08-18T05:20:02","slug":"in-praise-of-the-nurturers-of-the-world","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/in-praise-of-the-nurturers-of-the-world\/","title":{"rendered":"In Praise of The Nurturers of The\u00a0World"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"MOther<\/a><\/p>\n

To the Nurturers in our lives, I thank you. You are a gift to this world. You are gift to others. Without you, we’d fail to thrive and grow.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

From the words of Fred Rogers,\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cThink of those people<\/b> who loved you into your being.”\u00a0<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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These people belong to the universal Nurturers of the world. Nurturers have a special role in the grant scheme of things. They bring a piece of heaven on earth.<\/span><\/p>\n

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To you, dear Nurturers, you are part of someone\u2019s life. Like a gardener, you have sown the seeds for the flowers to grow, tend to soil, and water the plants; the work never ends.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Nurturers give. Like my mother, like my grand auntie, like my wife\u2014mother to my two children, like many carers I know from my work with individuals and families.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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I heard a story from one my clients. He is a father of a five year old, fighting for his dear life to have shared custody of his child. He wants to be part of his child’s life. He divorced from his wife, but not his child. \u00a0He wants to be present. He wants to be a Nurturer for his daughter. It’s an upward battle.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Nurturers sometimes give all of themselves away. They forget that when they neglect themselves, they have nothing left to give. Dear Nurturers, please don’t forget about you. Because you are a precious gift. Treat yourself as you would to\u00a0a beloved. What would you do to nurture that person?<\/span><\/p>\n

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A true Nurturer knows how to give AND receive. There is a gift in giving, and there is also a gift in letting others become a giver.<\/strong> By learning to receive, we allow others to feel the blessing you’ve experienced in giving.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Because of you\u2014and those before you\u2014a cascade is happening. Passing on love, from one person to the next, one generation to another. The passage of transmission is indeed\u00a0unpredictable, but it’s also inevitable. It’s inevitable that you, dear Nurturers, have an influence on the one you love.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Once again,\u00a0\u201cthink of those people<\/b> who loved you into your being.”\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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Take a moment to picture them in your mind as vividly as possible. Visualise them standing right in front of you. Now allow yourself to say a heartfelt, \u201cThank you.\u201d to them. A mother, a father, an uncle, a teacher, a friend.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Better yet, say thank you to each of them.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Thank you, dear Nurturers. You have loved me into my being.<\/span><\/p>\n

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p\/s: I try to remind myself to trade my expectation for appreciation<\/strong> of those around me. It holds an antidote to suffering.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Blessings,<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Daryl<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,4],"tags":[8,14,15,22,37],"class_list":["post-1000","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-reflections","category-social","tag-caring","tag-emotions","tag-giving","tag-love","tag-relationship","post-preview"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1000","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1000"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1000\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1000"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1000"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/fullcircles\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1000"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}