{"id":5624,"date":"2023-12-08T02:28:00","date_gmt":"2023-12-07T18:28:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/?p=5624"},"modified":"2024-05-11T14:42:31","modified_gmt":"2024-05-11T06:42:31","slug":"why-clients-ghost-and-other-therapy-termination-realities","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/why-clients-ghost-and-other-therapy-termination-realities\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Clients &#8216;Ghost&#8217; and Other Therapy Termination Realities"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><em>Note: This is originally from <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/darylchow.substack.com\">Frontier Friday<\/a><\/strong>, a weekly Substack published, originally released on 08 Dec. 202<\/em>3<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">At its best, therapy termination is a beautiful practice in grief work, the end of something important and meaningful for both client and therapist.&nbsp; At its worst, therapy termination is awkward, unsatisfying, and even confusing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><em>How do we set the tone for a positive ending from the very beginning?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">I returned to&nbsp;<em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/clearlyclinical.com\/podcast\/ceu-therapy-termination-grief\">Clearly Clinical Podcast<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;<\/em>a few months ago to talk about dealing with planned and unplanned endings in therapy.<em><br><br><\/em>From their synopsis:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">In an exceptionally powerful discussion about how therapists can be better at termination.&nbsp;<br>In this interview, Dr. Chow discusses how therapists tend to get off-course, leading to abrupt or one-sided termination, and how to manage unexpected therapist-initiated terminations due to things like job changes or illness.<br>Through the lens of clarifying research, this interview discusses how therapists can create a positive termination experience for therapist and client alike, and how to structure therapy to avoid premature client-initiated drop-outs. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Thanks for the great conversation, Beth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\">Love to hear your comments about this episode and your thoughts around closure in therapy. 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(If you are reading this on your email, click on the above title to go to either the Substack app or a&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/darylchow.substack.com\/p\/ff164\">web-browser<\/a>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/clearlyclinical.com\/podcast\/ceu-therapy-termination-grief\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/substackcdn.com\/image\/fetch\/w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep\/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F9cc69da6-93de-4dae-9a24-66eeb389ffef_1210x666.png\" alt=\"\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><em>p\/s: For those in the US and need CE points, this is available for this podcast.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong><em>If you would like to learn more topics that can help your professional development, subscribe to the Frontiers of Psychotherapist Development (FPD). 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