{"id":4552,"date":"2022-09-23T15:03:38","date_gmt":"2022-09-23T07:03:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/?p=4552"},"modified":"2024-07-02T18:08:35","modified_gmt":"2024-07-02T10:08:35","slug":"nuancedfeedback","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/nuancedfeedback\/","title":{"rendered":"# 19.  How to Elicit Nuanced Feedback Therapy Tip of the Week #6"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"embedly-card\" data-card-controls=\"1\" data-card-align=\"center\" data-card-theme=\"light\"><h4><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/R5OZ6KwMRfA\">No Title<\/a><\/h4><p>In Therapy Tip of the Week #6, we continue on the topic of improving working alliance. Here&#8217;s my recommendation: When seeking for feedback, avoid talking about&#8230; you! If you have missed the previous videos on how to improve working alliance, here are links: 1. Seek to be Dis-confirmed\u2192 https:\/\/youtu.be\/tHOxKLsYp6M 2.<\/p><\/blockquote><script async src=\"\/\/cdn.embedly.com\/widgets\/platform.js\" charset=\"UTF-8\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>In Therapy Tip of the Week #6, we continue on the topic of improving working alliance. Here&#8217;s my recommendation, when seeking for feedback, avoid talking about&#8230; you!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you have missed the previous videos on how to improve working alliance, here are links:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u23f3 Time Stamps:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>00:00: Introduction<br>01:00: Using Depersonalised language<br>01:42: What Feedback is Not<br>02:02: Feedback to Feed-Forward<br>04:14: Summary<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Note: Any personally identifiable information in clinical examples used are changed, in order to protect their confidentiality and privacy.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udcd5&nbsp;Related Link:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/weeklytherapylearnings\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Capturing Weekly Therapy Learnings<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/how-do-you-get-better-at-eliciting-feedback\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"> How Do You Get Better At Eliciting Feedback?<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/how-do-you-get-better-at-receiving-feedback\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"> How Do You Get Better at Receiving Feedback?<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udcdc <strong>Becoming a Deep Learner:<\/strong><br>If you value lifelong learning and want to leverage this into your clinical effectiveness as a mental health professional, check out The Deep Learner course. https:\/\/darylchowcourses.teachable.com\/p\/deeplearner\/ <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83c\udf81 Finally, would like to receive 5 wicked recommendations each Friday? Subscribe to our Frontiers Friday newsletter: &nbsp; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83c\udfaf<a href=\"https:\/\/darylchow.substack.com\">https:\/\/darylchow.substack.com<\/a><br><br>Here&#8217;s a sample of past FF newsletters:<br><strong>1. On Highly Sensitive Persons:<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/darylchow.substack.com\/p\/4760832_frontiers-friday-101-sensitivity-part-i-\"> https:\/\/darylchow.substack.com\/p\/4760832_frontiers-friday-101-sensitivity-part-i-<\/a><br><strong>2. On Emotions:<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/darylchow.substack.com\/p\/4760804_frontiers-friday-95-emotions-part-i-\"> https:\/\/darylchow.substack.com\/p\/4760804_frontiers-friday-95-emotions-part-i-<\/a> <br><strong>3. 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