{"id":4545,"date":"2022-09-09T17:03:56","date_gmt":"2022-09-09T09:03:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/?p=4545"},"modified":"2024-07-02T18:06:10","modified_gmt":"2024-07-02T10:06:10","slug":"disconfirmed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/disconfirmed\/","title":{"rendered":"#17. Seek to be Disconfirmed (Therapy Tip of the Week #5)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"embedly-card\" data-card-controls=\"1\" data-card-align=\"center\" data-card-theme=\"light\"><h4><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/tHOxKLsYp6M\">Seek to be Disconfirmed (Therapy Tip of the Week #5)<\/a><\/h4><p>Dissonance can be a powerful ingredient for learning. How do we challenge our intuition in order to listen to our client&#8217;s unspokens in order to foster a deeper connection with them? In this video, I recommend an exercise that I use called the &#8220;Rate and Predict,&#8221; to help me open up the conversation in therapy.<\/p><\/blockquote><script async src=\"\/\/cdn.embedly.com\/widgets\/platform.js\" charset=\"UTF-8\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Dissonance can be a powerful ingredient for learning. How do we challenge our intuition in order to listen to our client&#8217;s unspokens in order to foster a deeper connection with them?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this video, I recommend an exercise that I use called the &#8220;Rate and Predict,&#8221; to help me open up the conversation in therapy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u23f3 Time Stamps:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=tHOxKLsYp6M&amp;t=0s\">00:00<\/a> Introduction<br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=tHOxKLsYp6M&amp;t=25s\">00:25<\/a>: What is the Rate and Predict Exercise?<br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=tHOxKLsYp6M&amp;t=85s\">01:25<\/a>: Seeking to be Disconfirmed<br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=tHOxKLsYp6M&amp;t=150s\">02:30<\/a>: A Clinical Example<br><em>Note: Any personally identifiable information in clinical examples used are changed, in order to protect their confidentiality and privacy.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udcd5 Related Link:<br>1. <a href=\"http:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/the-tension-of-opposites-clinical-intuition-vs-clinical-data-part-2-of-2\/\"> http:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/the-tension-of-opposites-clinical-intuition-vs-clinical-data-part-2-of-2\/<\/a>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8212;<br>\ud83d\udcdc Becoming a Deep Learner: If you value lifelong learning and want to leverage this into your clinical effectiveness as a mental health professional, check out The Deep Learner course. <a href=\"https:\/\/darylchowcourses.teachable.com\/p\/deeplearner\/\">https:\/\/darylchowcourses.teachable.com\/p\/deeplearner\/<\/a>&nbsp;<br><br>&#8212;<br>\ud83c\udf81 Finally, would like to receive 5 wicked recommendations each Friday? 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