{"id":1765,"date":"2018-06-18T09:09:14","date_gmt":"2018-06-18T01:09:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/?p=1765"},"modified":"2020-06-28T00:48:41","modified_gmt":"2020-06-27T16:48:41","slug":"what-therapy-is-or-isnt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/what-therapy-is-or-isnt\/","title":{"rendered":"What Therapy Is (Or Isn&#8217;t)."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">The psychodynamic camp says, \u201cYour past is the problem.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">The third wave mindfulness therapist says \u201cMindlessness is the problem.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">The emotion-focused therapist says, \u201cYour unresolved feelings are the problem.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\"> The pioneering team at Mental Research Institute (MRI), Palo Alto says \u201cthe attempted solution is the problem.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">The solution-oriented practitioner says \u201cThere are exceptions to the problem.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1768\" src=\"http:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/What-Therapy-is-Or-isnt.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" srcset=\"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/What-Therapy-is-Or-isnt.png 560w, https:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/What-Therapy-is-Or-isnt-300x169.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Meanwhile, the problem-solving camp says \u201cThere are solutions to the problems,\u201d and the narrative therapist says, \u201cThe person is not the problem, the problem is the problem.\u201d\u2029<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Here&#8217;s our problem: The way we define what therapy is or isn&#8217;t could be the source why some clients who do not engage with us. (And a source of ongoing debate in our field. Watch this wonderful discussion between<span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=U5fhhAZnduU\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Bruce Wampold<\/span> a<span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">nd Peter Fonagy<\/span><\/a><\/span>)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Here&#8217;s some that I hear others (and myself) define therapy as:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Not about advice giving;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Not providing direction;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Non-directive listening;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">We should not influence clients;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Therapy is not coaching;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Clients should find their own solutions;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">The alliance must be discussed;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">The alliance must not be discussed;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">We should look into the past;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">We should not waste time in the past, and<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">\u00a0&#8230;And so on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">What if we are <strong>wrong<\/strong> about some of these ideas for some of our clients, some of the time? What if we do need to provide some direction, or go into the past, or God forbid, provide some inspiration? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">What if we learn to hold our ideas lightly? Why should we make people fit into our theories of human development, but instead, shouldn&#8217;t we\u00a0co-construct an individual map for each person?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Book Antiqua', Palatino;\">Maybe we should start each therapeutic endeavor with the following: What cultivates healing for <em>this<\/em>\u00a0person in distress?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, Palatino;\">Note: &#8216;Writing&#8230; is like driving a car at night,&#8221; says E.L. Doctorow, \u00a0&#8220;You can see only as far as your headlights, but you can make the whole trip that way.&#8221; After 2 years, I&#8217;m so glad my headlights lasted this far. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/First-Kiss-Igniting-Sessions-Psychotherapy-ebook\/dp\/B07DPMB2GC\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1529310533&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=the+first+kiss+daryl+chow\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">The First Kiss: Undoing the Intake Model and Igniting First Sessions in Psychotherapy<\/span><\/a>\u00a0is available for pre-order on amazon\u00a0now.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The psychodynamic camp says, \u201cYour past is the problem.\u201d The third wave mindfulness therapist says \u201cMindlessness is the problem.\u201d The emotion-focused therapist says, \u201cYour unresolved feelings are the problem.\u201d The pioneering team at Mental&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1768,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[111,128,2],"tags":[6,7,76],"class_list":["post-1765","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-deliberate-practice","category-first-sessions","category-for-professionals","tag-biases","tag-clinical-practice","tag-orientation"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v25.4 - 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