{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Frontiers of Psychotherapist Development","provider_url":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers","title":"Do Not Become Attached to The Outcome - Frontiers of Psychotherapist Development","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"ixFmy0R10g\"><a href=\"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/do-not-become-attached-to-the-outcome\/\">Do Not Become Attached to The Outcome<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/do-not-become-attached-to-the-outcome\/embed\/#?secret=ixFmy0R10g\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Do Not Become Attached to The Outcome&#8221; &#8212; Frontiers of Psychotherapist Development\" data-secret=\"ixFmy0R10g\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/darylchow.com\/frontiers\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Do-Not-Become-Attached-to-Outcomes.png","thumbnail_width":560,"thumbnail_height":315,"description":"\u201cWe cannot be attached to outcome, says Zen Roshi\u00a0Joan\u00a0Halifax. Similarly, the Stoics point out that we do not have control of outcomes, but only the process.\u201d Here are two scenarios to think through the&#46;&#46;&#46;"}